You know how to be a better parent than “they” do. Know why? Because you are doing it.
Nobody can raise your children better than you.
You know how to do your job better than your boss.
If this weren’t true, you wouldn’t have a job.
No one else is married to your spouse. Your spouse deserves you. Your spouse needs you. You provide value. Value is not as sexy as love, but it’s true.
Many people around you can offer advice and input. But it’s you getting up every morning and doing it.
You have value to the world because you are valuable.
Keep making that so.